Infertility and family planning counseling in Centennial, CO and online

Trying to grow your family can bring hope, grief, and strain all at once. Phil helps individuals and couples navigate infertility, treatment decisions, and family planning conversations while protecting your relationship along the way.

  • EFT-informed
  • In person or online
  • For individuals and couples
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Is this for us?

Signs infertility and family planning counseling can help

  • Months of trying or treatment are wearing you both down
  • You and your partner are not on the same page about next steps
  • Pregnancy loss or failed treatments have left you grieving
  • Intimacy feels scheduled, pressured, or distant
  • Baby announcements and family questions feel painful
  • You are weighing options like IVF, donor conception, adoption, or living child-free

The approach

How counseling helps during infertility and family planning

Phil uses an EFT-informed approach to help couples turn toward each other instead of apart under stress, along with practical tools for the anxiety, grief, and decision fatigue that often come with fertility challenges.

Step 1

Understand the strain

Name how this journey is affecting each of you and the patterns showing up between you.

Step 2

Support each other through the hard parts

Talk openly about fears, losses, and hopes, so neither of you carries it alone.

Step 3

Make decisions together

Work through next steps and family planning choices as a team, with clarity about what matters most to each of you.

Your first few sessions

What to expect in infertility and family planning counseling

A free phone consultation

A short call to share where you are in your journey and decide whether Phil is a good fit.

Together or on your own

Come as a couple or individually. Phil learns your story, what you have been through, and what support you need right now.

Support through each stage

Meet on a rhythm that fits treatment cycles and everyday life, in person in Centennial or online.

★★★★★

“Phil helped us stop blaming ourselves and start leaning on each other again.”

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Infertility and family planning counseling FAQs

Do we need to come as a couple?

No. Many people start on their own, and partners can join later. Phil works with individuals and couples.

Can counseling help after a pregnancy loss?

Yes. Miscarriage, stillbirth, and failed treatments are real losses. Counseling offers space to grieve and to reconnect with your partner. Grief counseling is also available.

Do you work with couples considering IVF, adoption, or other paths?

Yes. Phil helps you talk through options, values, and expectations so you can make decisions you both feel good about. He does not give medical advice and works alongside your medical team.

Can we do this counseling online?

Yes. Telehealth sessions are available for clients living in Colorado, Arizona, Oregon, Florida, Washington, or Virginia.

What does a session cost?

Sessions are $175 for 45 minutes or $210 for 60 minutes. Phil is an out-of-network provider and can give you a superbill to submit to your insurance for possible reimbursement. HSA and FSA cards can often be used for therapy as well.

Related counseling services

Couples Counseling

Help for partners at any stage who feel stuck in the same cycle.

Grief Counseling

A compassionate space to work through loss at your own pace.

Visit or reach out

Contact Phil Hartwick Counseling in Centennial, CO

Have a question or want to see if counseling is a good fit? Call, text, email, or book a free phone consultation. In-person sessions in Centennial and telehealth across CO, AZ, OR, FL and WA.

Book a free family planning counseling consultation

A free, no-pressure phone consultation is the easiest way to see if working together feels right.